Pattaya Daily News

05 July 2006 :: 17:07:52 pm 21377

Your friend might well be your own worst enemy!

Do you value the friendship between someone you have recently just met more over your friend whom you have known for a great length of time?
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       Why not? According to our experience the relationship one has with boyfriend or girlfriend takes presidence over that of your long-term friends. The saying you are simply a friend, you already knew that. Oh really, bother!

       What constitutes a good friend then? Have you ever had a friend whom you have known for years suddenly doesn‘t want to know you? Recently your friend has found someone new in his life, he then turns a cold shoulder on you, saying he has no time to meet up with you, or, that he is always busy with work and things, or, something like he is too tired to meet up with you. Heed the writing on the wall you are obviously no longer on the list of his priority of importance. Basically, he is too busy making new friends. And can you blame him??

       It got so bad that you start to analyse or form an opinion about your actions and reasons that you may have caused or upset your friend during your last meeting together. Or,that there is something seriously wrong with you, or, worst still, you had said something either tentionally or unintentionally that upset your friend in some way so much so that he decided to ditch the friendship with you. If that is the case, move on with your life, besides why waste time thinking about him. Stop wallowing in your self pity. Start looking on the bright side and be positive about yourself. Obviously your relationship with him may have been transformed into something else in whatever direction it may be. So just relax!

     Let‘s look at it this way, many fashion designers do, believe it all not, go out of fashion, many singing careers are short lived, many marriages, sadly, do end up in divorce. Do you honestly expect your friend then to stay forever loyal to you? GET REAL!!!

FRIENDS DO COME AND GO, THERE IS PLENTY MORE OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU TO MAKE MANY MORE!!!

Reporter : PDN staff   Photo : Internet   Category : Stories

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