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30 March 2010 :: 13:03:57 pm 17050

How to Win a Girl’s Heart

There is a great difference between being liked and being loved, but despite this difference, many men are easily fooled.
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The first sign that shows she loves you is, she becomes territorial. The human female is the most territorial creature in the animal world. So the question is, does she love me or my wallet? You can pluck any number of petals from a flower but this will never answer the question You just have to aware of her subtle ways of showing her love for you, as unlike men, women are quite secretive about their ways.

The sign of her love for you is firstly, she is always there for you. Women are generally good listeners, but when in love, she will sit and listen to anything and everything you have to say, no matter how trivial, boring or repetitive you are.  She does this, not because she enjoys the attention, but because she wants to be a part of your life. This is why she answers your calls at all hours and hears you out, no matter how late it is.

Women are nurturers though do not support every one around them, only one person will get her attention.  So, if this girl you like supports your dreams and ambitions, there is a big chance she loves you. For example, if your interests mean having to go away for a few weeks or months, the girl who likes you will ask you not to go or be indifferent to you, whereas the girl that loves you, will understand that you have to go to reach your dreams or goals and will support you in fulfilling them. So if she nurtures you and your interests, she loves you.

She will walk that extra mile for you where your friends will not. When you ask her to help with an assignment, it will be done. Tell her about your problems and she will try to find a solution. When you are sick, she will stay up all night to nurse you.  She will cater to your every demand. This is her way of telling you she loves you.

Meeting the parents is the tops. She cannot do any more than this to show she loves you. Getting you to meet her parents is a sure sign in her heart and mind that she loves you. She is strengthening the bond by letting you see the important things in her life.  So, does she love me? Clear all doubts, she loves you.

These are some of the answers to the question ‘Does she love me”. The last of the signs that she love you is that she trusts you. It takes a long time for a woman to trust a man. That is the way they are, so if she shares every detail about herself with you, you have made it to her heart. She loves you, definately.

Smelly socks are the biggest turn off for any girl, while unkempt hair looks like you have not taken a bath for days.  So first thing to do if you are fancying your chances is to keep yourself clean and well dressed.

When you finally get round to talking to the girl you are interested in, make sure you have eyes only for her and do not keep checking out all the females that pass you by. It will show the girl in question that you cannot be trusted and that you are not that interested in her. So if you want to win a girl, keep your attention on her when talking.

You may think that the women of today are independent and are not on the look out for a prince charming to protect and care for them…..Wrong! Every woman is looking for her prince charming, her knight in shining amour who will sweep her off her feet and protect her from the rest of the world.  So one way to a girl’s heart is chivalry, open doors for her pull up a seat, offer her your jacket if she is cold, drop her off home etc.

Be humorous, make her laugh, girls love funny jokes and stories, especially if she is feeling low or sad.

Winning a girls heart is not just about talking; try doing something for her. It is all too easy to say ‘I love you’ or ‘I will do this, that or the other’. Try putting the words into actions.  Paying attention to her smallest desires will matter more than empty words, but this does not mean that you should not express your love for her. If your girl friend is upset with you about some thing, then simply go and talk to her. But do these things, don’t just think or talk about them; actions speak louder than words.

Sarah Goldman

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