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07 July 2007 :: 15:07:15 pm 22370

How To Keep Your Man Interested

I probably shouldn’t be giving away all our female love secrets in a publication that is read predominantly by Western men, but if you know our ways then you can at least go along with them. The secret is to pretend you knew nothing about them beforehand and then to act totally surprised when your lady uses these methods on you. Otherwise, this article is for the benefit of womenfolk out there to help you keep your man.
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You’ve found a steady guy and one that you’d like to stay with for some time. How do you keep him interested and ensure that he doesn’t stray? A big problem, I know, especially in Pattaya with so many beautiful women around. The important thing is not necessarily about fantastic sex, but the way that you approach sex. Here are four essential secrets to keep him hanging on.

1. Don’t tease him, but don’t be a sure thing, either. 
            What matters here is drawing a distinction between being playful and being a tease. If you lead him on too much and then don’t deliver, he’ll inevitably resent it and bad feelings will develop between you. Not only that, but he’ll probably go off to find satisfaction elsewhere. Keep him guessing, but once you’ve agreed, don’t under any circumstances refuse him. That’s a recipe for disaster. At the same time don’t let him always assume you’re constantly available. That way, he’ll no longer regard you as a challenge, but will take you for granted and lose interest. It’s OK to refuse him sometimes, especially if you’re very tired, but don’t make a habit of it. If you refuse him occasionally, it’ll keep him hanging on and may even encourage him to be extra nice to you, by doing some of the household chores or giving you presents.
 

2. Flatter him, but don’t overdo it. 
            All men, no matter what they may say (or so I believe) k\like to think that they’re the bees knees. To tell him differently, to bring him down to earth is just not acceptable. They’re very sensitive creatures, no matter what they might say. So don’t ridicule him, don’t downplay his performance or the size of his appendage. Size doesn’t matter, right? Wrong, but don’t under any circumstances let him know. Flatter him, tell him he’s the best ever, but make a note to discuss it later. Don’t whatever you do compare him negatively with former partners or boyfriends; most definitely not a good idea. Remember least, said soonest mended. Once you tell him the blatant truth, it’s out in the open and can never be withdrawn. Remember, men are like elephants, they never forget. Instead tell him the things he is good at and educate him if he doesn’t know. Just get him to try a bit harder, but don’t assume he knows. Tell him, but in a nice way.

3. Underpromise, overdeliver. 
            Don’t create false expectations in the bedroom. If you went further with others and were prepared to be more libertarian, keep it to yourself. At the same time, don’t promise the world and then perform badly. Let him find out for himself, that way he’ll be kept guessing about what other tricks you have up your sleeve.

 

4. Desire is key. 
            Most ladies believe great sex is all about the performance. Now, don’t misunderstand me — if you’re really good at something and get off on it, by all means, indulge yourself! But it’s important to remember that if you simply tell your man you desire him, you’ll boost his self-confidence. Plus, making him feel wanted will increase his desire for you considerably. Tell him how much you desire him, but don’t overdo it. It will enflame is desire, so that even if you’re not the most exciting thing that’s ever existed between the sheets, you might be pleasantly surprised. It’s remarkable how he being super-aroused has a knock-on effect, which will improve both your performances.

Give all these techniques a try out and don’t forget to give us feedback. We can use it in future advice columns if nothing else.
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