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14 June 2006 :: 17:06:13 pm 21423

Expensive Lesson for Farang

This is a story that goes out to the foreigners coming to terms living in Thailand and having the difficulties to adapt and become successful and enjoy your life here.
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This is a story that goes out to the foreigners coming to terms living in Thailand and having the difficulties to adapt and become successful and enjoy your life here.

Firstly and personally I believe you require the strength and support of a good and outstanding person. Partner, lover , friend , business partner or the girl at the 7/11 you cannot go it alone here!

In Thailand life can be a turmoil of passions that are explored, dreams that are pursued ,clashes of culture and religion and free enterprise.

Living here you will hear the tales of many that have been dealt such a hard blow , ripped off , cheap packages , back street stories of prostitutes and mafia?.the black list goes on.

In all the negativity the positivity out weighs the bad by 5 to 1 .

There are tales of fortune and tales failure whatever country you may reside in and here is no exception it is you the foreigner that must learn the ways and language of the diverse and magnificent THAILAND

Lack of communication sees the foreigner venting frustration like he owns the country when the local and natives of this Beautiful country seem helpless to point him the right direction or speak and understand his words.

Who should become angry or lose their patience first you or the local?

With our lack of ability to communicate we tend hibernate in the sois or common areas for the foreigners introducing the habits of abroad.

How and what is the point of living here or in fact or any community when you wish to form your own away from the general population.

Lost and asking for directions? tried a road map ?hmmm? yep that didn?t help as the signs are written in Thai script.

The times of colonism and conquering nations are over , well except for the US and there globalization policy and plan. As a tourist or resident here remember you are that and no more, think and remember the slander and racism that we in our native countries exposed and exploited the Asians or Russian migrants to then we can feel some shame and condemn the actions of the past as being our time to suffer some humiliation and exposure to the ways of being a migrant here.

Foreign policy aside and back to the raw matter of all , working , holidaying and simple ordering the regular burger without mayo is more than a matter of words. You must learn and live with the Thai accept their ways and attitude about all then and only then can you learn to live here and accept the faults not of any but the boundaries Relationship Pointers

I am what I consider no expert on the Thai relationship but for the good to doer and help your mate out think twice.

We?ve all come here and found love in the bottle, which has ultimately left us with some panama type woman taking the opportunity to feeds from our state of misadventure.
You may find the strength to be solo here but like most foreigners whether they prefer woman, boys or the mix of the two previous you may just be bale to relate this story.

So you have had your friend now for the period of six months, a long time and consider yourself her property and the family life support.

The gold she now wears so proudly, the extra few words of the English you have taught or paid the extra for her to go to school. In fact the cunning ones will try and cut a deal where they keep half the money and the teacher keeps half for not attending.

You didn?t hear about this ?wake up? I mean what has she learnt in the last three months.

From the cheap and long trip in the Northern and less glamorous parts of the Mid Thailand to stay and meet the family. Drink endless nights (on you) and listen to Thai tales shared which is probably directed about you and how the extra buffalo and padi field can be acquired You smile on and think they really love me and accept me .Who does not like money fool.

Hell have you ever wondered why the mobile phone goes every twenty minutes .Oh yea that is right she works for Amway and phone orders are abundant.

Hospital bills run high her as well!
My poor girls parents she has too send 10 000 baht every month to kept her well.

In heinsight and after all this if you are living here a tourist or wanna be , Thailand is all and more the rest of the planet has to offer. be grateful, happy and reflect back to where you are from and smile.
On departure from the land of love , do not burdon your friends with the right to do question for the time .Can you just help out and look after my friend.

Of course what seems the easy and logical thing to help a mate out at the time will soon become the friends nightmare and lead to the end of your friendship with him .

Here are some of the deceitful happenings and common practices I have learnt and heard about.

The friend on your request pays the room .

All good intent and that is after all what the boyfriend from overseas requested .No worries on the finiacial side as I will pay you back. Female response to this. Oh you must care for me so much anytime come and visit me and I can pay you back.

Male..No No you misunderstand that is your boyfriends request he is paying Me back.

“Whew? wiping your eyebrow you get the hell out there .Never let yourself get in this one or always take some one with you

Scenario two.

I was called back to my friend?s office and residence . It was my friends girl friend shocked to see her there I said yes are you alright.She replied on no I miss Mr X so much can you help me reach him.

Male thought . Shit she needs money ait or it.

Female . Oh can you get me a beer.

Male . Waiter beer please . Here we go already I am paying for her beers.

Female. Please oh please my boyfriend will not mail me and reach me . I miss him and love him. NO crying. (Don?t be fooled they are pos at tears)

Me . Last time you told me that you had found new love and being my friend I will let him know NOT to waste anytime on you further in.

Smart female thinking. This guy is a threat to my income I do not know him or care but need my $$ how can I trap him or at least keep him from telling his friend. Maybe I will try and seduce him if that does not work simple he has a girl friend I hang around here long enough he will pay me to go.

These girls are desperate and survival is their game ?remember they are well practiced and have learnt all the bullshit from generations ago

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