Pattaya Daily News

09 October 2010 :: 12:10:51 pm 43455

Are You Surrounded by Toxic People

What are toxic people and do you have them around you in your life or in your place of employment? Take a look at those around you, people you work with, friends, family or anyone who interacts with you on a daily basis.
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Do people drag you down, drain you of your energy, your time, and money? Do they play with your mind? If they make you feel bad, unattractive or depressed, then these are toxic people. People who make you feel physically or mentally oppressed.

For many of us, autumn or fall is a season to break from the rushing about in the hot summer sun and as the temperatures drop and the leaves begin to fall we start rearranging our wardrobes. Putting away the summer clothes and putting out the warm stuff. We clean our homes of unnecessary clutter.

In addition to the clutter in our homes, we need to clear our minds and our lives of unnecessary clutter, removing things that interfere with our lives, our minds and our peace.

The process of separating yourself from individuals can be somewhat distressing and painful, but can prove to be beneficial to your spiritual, emotional and physical health.

Every person suffers a certain amount of selfishness, but those who focus on themselves and their needs and desires do not genuinely add anything of value to your life. Selfish people are concerned only of themselves and their welfare and show no interest when you are feeling needed or sick and down.

If jealous people took their time to understand that they can have a good time, be successful and help others and not be angry or disgusted at your success and likeability their jealousy would dissipate. Never the less, a jealous person can drag you into a depression, drain you of any confidence and be a dangerous person.

There are many people who have no love in their heart for themselves let alone anyone else. These are the loveless. They cannot love or be loved. They sap your energy through their mere presence and give out negative thoughts and behavior.

Violent people don’t have to actually use a weapon or their fists to cause harm. These people drag you down with accusations and threats, criticism and stinging words.

Quiet people can be good for you as a lot of quiet people can be wise and will listen until you finished then think before they answer you, but there are the quiet people who are moody and sulky and when they do speak it is in a negative way again making you feel unwanted, useless and depressed.

If those around you are anything like the above descriptions, then they are ‘toxic’ people. These people are the clutter in your life you have to distance yourself from. Once you have dropped them, you will find you feel better, happier and this will in turn attract better and happier people.

Reporter : PDN staff   Photo : PDN staff   Category : Health

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